Every now and then I’m planning to introduce you to some of the people who live in our neighborhood. My husband Tom kindly agreed to be my guinea pig for the project, so here he is!
I asked him a series of questions beginning with “On a routine day in your life, what give you the most pleasure?”
He takes a sip of his wine and spreads some camembert from Fromagerie Sophie on his cracker.
“The most pleasure? Eating cheese and drinking red wine,” he says.
“And feeling the wind whistle past my ears when I ride my bike. I’m very fond of that. Just feeling the air. And I like the soft light of the evening.”
He eats some more cheese and considers.
“Just simple creature comforts give me the most pleasure.”
After enjoying some of the wine and cheese myself, I ask, “What activities in general give you the greatest joy?”
“Diverting water,” he says without hesitation. (This is a guy who spent most of the last few weekends repairing a gray water system he built in our backyard. Lots of water to divert).
He continues, “Walking on the beach, eating great food, sex, GREAT music, oh, listening to great music like Rachmaninov’s 2nd and 3rd piano concertos, oh, I love that!
“All the sensory stuff. I’m not real big into thinking grand thoughts. I’m more emotionally driven than cognitively driven, more into senses than internal cognitive states.”
We finish off the cheese and wine. I ask, “What experiences in your life changed the way you see the world most dramatically?
He barely pauses. “Camping, being outdoors and realizing it doesn’t have to be thought of as God’s creation, but whatever it is, it’s damn beautiful. Canoeing across a lake in upper Minnesota or hiking up in the mountains in Colorado. You just can’t beat that.
“That year in France, speaking foreign languages, meeting other people, eating their food, laughing at their jokes. Humans, I like humans a lot. That’s why I like teaching.
“Going to Africa, being in the villages.
“Reading great books. They open your mind, change how you look at things. It’s very important to read books from many different perspectives. That really opens your mind the most. I’ll read one book about how Europe underdeveloped Africa and then the next book is about the human body. I like that, I really like that.” He pours himself another glass of wine.
“What do you like about the way you make a living?” I ask.
“I love the variety. Running the chocolate business, Mama Ganache, you’re constantly running into all kinds of problems and challenges. Teaching, you’re always trying to be on the edge, trying to do a good job.
“I remember buying some antiques from an old farmhouse in Texas and there was a sign that said Ich will streben nach dem Leben: I will strive to live. I like that Germanic idea of striving. I like trying to do as well as I possibly can. Without being a type A personality, just for the heck of it, just for the variety and the challenge. I like that, I like that.”
I continue, “What was your favorite job?”
“Huh. My favorite job? I liked them all. I liked playing the pipe organ because I like the challenge of making good sounds and the preachiness of organ music; collecting rat urine, well, I wouldn’t say that was my favorite job, but it was fun hanging around scientists. I liked baking, I liked working the line in a French kitchen, getting into arguments with the chef, running a restaurant, having a fun time with Puerto Ricans – the restaurant industry is full of Puerto Ricans in New York, great people, fun to josh around with, I learned a lot of Spanish. Ah, every job has so many good things about it – as long as you stay open-minded – stay curious about the world.”
We drink the last of the wine, a very nice cab from Vina Robles, as the sun goes down behind Bishop’s Peak. Am I fortunate or what?
16 thoughts on “Neighborhood magic: an interview with Tom Neuhaus”
This is a great idea, Eve. We have so many interesting people in our neighborhood, so much talent and interesting lives. Your other posts are interesting too. Keep it up. Your blog is good resource for people looking into moving to SLO.
Thanks, Jeff. It’s true we have lots of interesting people here. I have a long list of people I’m hoping to interview!
So many things to be thankful for and a reminder of how inspiring our daily lives can be. Thank you for the reminder. I needed that.
Glad to help! See you the first Monday of March? (I’m planning a post on Monday Night Dinners too.)
Tom is a quiet inspiration. As we Quakers like to say, “Friend speaks my mind.” Thanks for sharing.
Not always so quiet. But thanks so much, Russell.
I’ve known Tom for how long now? And I learned so much from this blog! Tom, I love you! I love hearing about the things you love! (partly because I love most of them, too … ) Thank you, Eve.
P.S. I can’t figure out how to like your blog.
Hm. You have to go to the entry itself, not the main page, by clicking on the title in the sidebar. Then, at the very bottom you can check Like.
(Tom and I love you too, Johanna!)
Great interview and great take on life! I immensely enjoyed Prof. Neuhaus’ food and cooking course at Cal Poly. He taught me a great deal about how to prepare and experience food, plus he does a mean Julia Child impersonation!
Aw shucks… Truly the best reward in the teaching profession is the appreciation that graduates express. -TN
Greetings Eve and Tom, from snowy Reston Virginia. It is a double pleasure to see Tom and read of the love you share in SLO, while vicariously tasting the wine and cheese. It’s a pastime often indulged in here with similar pleasure. We hope to do it together with you one day in the future. Remembering good times with you, Leslie and Dan
So nice to hear from you! Do you ever come west any more? Do get in touch. Sharing the same fond memories and sending love to you both.
For sharing Tom’s perspectives – he is a prize and so are you! A perfect match!
Haha! I should tell that story here.
I loved this dear Eve. Tom is such a Rachmaninoff style dude. Suits him perfectly, as does cheese from the fromagerie Sophie and great wine from our area. Slurp, slurp. You go Tom!
Keep on posting. this is fun.
You have to love Tom, don’t you? Thanks so much for the encouragement!